Life is for real!

One thing I always feared in life was this that when I look into someones eyes i don’t see hatred for myself,I don’t see pity for me,i don’t see the feeling of revenge in them.Infact I never wanted to see sad eyes,I never wanted anyone to say this to me “you have fallen down in my eyes”,I never wanted to see a feeling of disgust for me in peoples eyes,I never wanted someone’s eyes to say “you broke my trust” but the thing I dreaded the most was my own eyes lowering down on seeing someone.I never wanted a feeling of guilt to creep into me but it all happened!
Life is unpredictable,one moment it gives you all the reasons to be on the 9th cloud and just with the blink of your eyes makes you fall on the surface,harder than you expected to fall!If today I sit and write about how beautiful my life is,I will be able to write a lot,I am lucky when it comes to certain things but as seen people generally do not count their blessings.The same is with me.I like writing about all the “negative things” in my life,I am not a pessimist but yes then I am not even a complete optimist.I love to be happy but then how can I always be happy when my life isn’t perfect?I am wrong,my thought process is wrong.Perfection and happiness and two different things,happiness is attainable and perfection is something which cannot be attained!Why are we expecting life to be fair when we know it can never be fair?
Perfection doesn’t come along with happiness,it’s just this that when we start finding joy in small things what we experience after some time is perfect happiness!And we humans require prefect happiness and not a perfect life!
We go wrong,we do the wrong deed without thinking about the consequences and when finally we have to face the consequences we are shattered.What for?It is life,you will go wrong,you aint God..and the fact is this that you can never be God!So be human,don’t blame yourself for every little thing that happens in your life,be a person who trusts oneself and who listens to what others say but does what the inner being says!Get over the fact that God does everything,stop thinking that he has a solution to every problem and that he will always be there for you..learn to be independent!Accept the way life is going.Even if you hate your life,accept that hatred as a part of you!Deal with it!Grow up!Crying is not the solution to every problem on earth and every problem on earth doesn’t even have a solution.Sometimes you need to just “let it lie” to let things be.everything in life is not worth your attention and hence you need to realize that life will NOT always be great!There are low times in everyones life and in some lives there are no high points at all.Again accept the fact and move on!Don’t curse!Sometimes you give in your best but you don’t even get half of what you expected.It hurts.I know..i can understand but then till what time do you sit and lament about the fact that you never get what you deserve?Life is too short to regret things and events.Be a happy person.Your tears are way too precious.There are people who love you, maybe you don’t get the same love that you give others back but then you can’t beg for love,you have to smile when life expects you to cry!Be stong!Be a Gods child!Never blame him for the events taking place in your life..ask yourself..there must be a reason behind them..a reason which you already know or which you will soon come to know!Be patient!Life has too much in store for you..it will suffocate you to death but you have to breathe,you need to live,you need to love your life when you think it hates you!Not because you can’t fight back but because you need to accept the fact that however great you are your life and God will always be greater than you!Sometimes you fall down in everyones eyes,sometimes the people who mean a lot to you don’t even look at you,sometimes you don’t know what have you done that everything around you seems so blurry.These are the testing times.Don’t fail.Accept it and do something about it and if you can’t let it be.Time does wonders.It really does.I am not asking you to be a loser in life,I am just expecting you to realize the fact that this life is worth everything but one thing that you need to know is this that it cannot be fair!
I am not asking you to kill your desires and expectations but I am asking you to be strong enough when they don’t come true.I am not asking you not to believe in God but I am asking you to stop blaming him for everything.I am not asking you to be a perfect human being but I am asking you to be a sensible human being who doesn’t demand perfection or complete happiness,who just lives life as it comes with tears and laughter,with friends and enemies,with dreams and shattered dreams,with pride and guilt,with trust and sometimes without it!You have to live this life..you need to live this life with a large heart and a broad smile!You need to be strong enough to correct your own mistakes and rise up again in the eyes of others,you need to look into the eyes of a person,you need to come out of your guilt and live a happy life,you need to stop paying attention to what everyone says and sometimes you need to look down and say a “sorry”.That’s life and that’s how it will be for you and for me!Sometimes you need to live your biggest fears and you need to be strong enough to face them!
Sometimes life truly sucks and at those times we need to know that it does suck!We cannot run away from the reality everytime!Face yourself and your life before it gets too late and you have nothing left with you!Come out of your illusions and come to the real world!Life is for real..know that and deal with it!